Listen to Yourself
… “Thanks to courage and an open mind, you can learn a lot about yourself.
You will have access to information about who you really are now. Mostly you will be surprised, but please don't run away from yourself in fear. Do not dismiss the collected facts about yourself. After the first emotions have subsided, if you make a move towards development, you will eventually begin to manage yourself and act as you wish. It will be a different, higher quality of everyday life for you.
All the answers to your questions are within you. You will hear yourself and your voice when you make it easy for yourself. Finding ways to calm yourself down is helpful.
When you finally reach this state, you start creating what you want and what you decide. What you have been longing for for so long and for which you have cried more than once in the silence of the night will appear in your life. But it will only be realized thanks to your attitude and actions performed. Nobody else will do it for you.
The life of each of you is your own personal arena, you perform there 24 hours a day. You will find yourself there. I keep my fingers crossed for your steps and let this path drive you in what you are doing. Enjoy every moment you construct. To feel them, allow yourself to take steps along this path. Give yourself this opportunity. Your attitude shapes your life and how you perceive every detail of it. It is you who allow or forbid yourself everything in it. Realize that you are really creating everything that is around you and within you. " …
… “I believe that examples should be taken from children. They become role models from the very first moments of their lives for careful observers. They never give up in their attempts to learn to walk! Never! Many times they lose their balance by falling over, but in the end - for themselves and their loving parents - they become winners by overcoming their weaknesses. After another unsuccessful attempt, they get up and stand up straight. In their strength, slightly swaying, they cross the room, happily hitting the outstretched hands of the delighted mom and the proud dad.
Did you count how many times in your life have you fallen and how many have you risen from? Do you remember the decision you made that you would not get back up and fight for yourself? You have announced that you are not making any more efforts for yourself and for your own development. When you are not striving for yourself, you are like an overturned, crying baby lying on a carpet, with the only difference that he will try to get up in a few minutes, and you plan to do nothing for at least a few years in your rebellion. For a toddler, walking across the room is a challenge; do you have any? He has a purpose in his life, do you in yours?
In the moment of a breakdown, you look just like him, except that you drag it on for weeks or months, and he takes seconds. You say to yourself and your loved ones that you consciously do not want to get up. What if you get pressure ulcers after a while? You will even more responsibilities around you. Can you do it if you're not giving now? Will the dripping tears of infirmity that flow from your beautiful eyes do the job for you? If so, let them go into the city, maybe they are more agile than you? " …
... "As living beings on Earth, with our own thoughts, we can confuse our own reality so much that everything within the destructor's reach can be completely destroyed. This self-contained programmer does not notice that he is the creator of all the negative energy surrounding him and that he sustains it himself. If those who produce bad energy transformed it into the path of positive creation of their life, with the same strength, or even half as much, that they put into maintaining their poor everyday life, then where do you think they would be, who would they be and how they would feel?
This thought of an average Kowalski, which after a while becomes his reality, appears only in his creative mind. In the head of another person passing by Kowalski, his thoughts are no longer there. The other person lives in a different world of their own and has thoughts of their own. Of course, he may have the same dilemmas in life as Kowalski, but not his thoughts. All people are building or ruining their world at any moment. They create their own "arable fields" in their heads. This proves the phenomenon of man.
Kowalski, being in terrible condition, looks for help from everywhere, and does not realize that each person is the best doctor for himself. Only he can take best care of himself. The long-awaited rescue will come when he turns to himself for help. He has all the codes and keys for his interior. Man decides when he wants to put himself in order. The creator of all thoughts of everyday life, he is the best anesthesiologist and surgeon for himself.
You build your life by yourself. Nobody does anything for you. You should know that each of us is the creator of our own time and the quality of spending it. Finally, stop fooling yourself and others. Don't throw your filth onto others. Your pollution is not the pollution of those around you. They have theirs, and you have yours.
I am writing about it in this way because for several years I have experienced the actions of my thoughts on myself. I have felt their effects for a long time. The burdens they carried led only towards self-destruction. I brought them into my life by myself. They influenced me for long nights and days. After a while, I realized that being like this was of no help to me. My worries didn't solve my problems. They still exist, did not disappear and even grew stronger. In fact, it was getting worse for myself. After reading carefully about this fatigue and the harsh living conditions I was creating, I finally said that it was enough. "...
The worst ones, like the torturers, had families, looked for happiness and love in life, but it didn't matter. Understand that showing and proving the supposedly more valuable values of superhumans was done using force, usually by placing the barrel of the gun against the temples of the attacked people.
Do you think it an extortion or is it a sincere, educating and upbuilding conversation? When you put another person against the wall, can you expect a different response from him than the one forced by the person who has his finger on the trigger? Of course not. Consider whether the above example is in balance? Of course it isn't. This is what the human ego is. An imbalance. Overused, it always leads to arguments, conflicts and wars.
Contrary to appearances, the ego does not master a person who is strong and knows his value as a human being, but only the weak, undervalued and unsure ones. When it oversees a weakling, it wreaks havoc wherever it wants with his own hands. A wise man manages it and does not abuse it. He only uses his strength to build, not destroy.
If you trace the history of mankind, you will see that no one who attacked other nations or tribes survived too long. The goal should be to consciously master and rule the ego that is part of a person, not to be a puppet in its hands.
An ant that carries a leaf is just as important as a pine tree, which has fallen during the storm. A blade of grass growing in the sun's rays, like a hawk flying over trees. No one piece of a complex puzzle is more important than the others. Everything remains in symbiosis with each other.
Apples and Flowers
One night when she was about sixteen, she came home but was loud enough to wake us up. I glanced at the alarm clock with a still sleeping eye and saw that it was a few minutes after four in the morning. Happy conversations and laughter from below completely sobered us up. The voice of Livia, as we know it, was dominated by a different, lower one. When we went down to the ground floor, it turned out that she was with a friend who was not Polish. She introduced us to Taro, a boy from Japan. All in all, we shouldn't be surprised.
I couldn't hide that I was angry. I went to bed tired at one in the morning. But it was not about interrupting sleep, because it was not the first time that I had gone to bed this late. I know my anger came from seeing my daughter smiling at someone else, not me. That someone was a young guy, and she was standing way too close to him. It was clear that they liked each other, they were not embarrassed at all. Every now and then their heads almost met. They were actually… flirting. I couldn't look at it, my blood temperature was rising rapidly in my veins. The level of my objection grew.
Wrestling with the raw elements of hardened fishermen clearly showed me the nature of my contacts with employees and other people with whom I had contact every day.
So far it was closer to quick clashes, where fulfilling my goals was most important, rather than to listen to important things that may have been said.
I was reminded of the connections between all people. They are always clearly seen during the dramatic and extremely stressful circumstances in which they are involved. Here, in bad weather conditions, five colleagues helped two in a deplorable situation.
I thought that every day there are times when those in need extend their hands to those nearby.
In the fast paced daily routine, this gesture can be overlooked, but it often appears in our lives.
Flowers offered to a woman confirm how important she is in the life of the person giving them. They are a show of her respect and love.
When a woman receives a bouquet, she is filled with joy. This glorious moment raises the shining Angel above the earth. The environment is filled with a mysterious essence, which means that a couple of people in love with each other are transferred to another dimension where gentleness, kindness and harmony reign.
Time stands still. The body does not need oxygen for a few minutes and the breath stops. You want this moment to last as long as possible. So that passing seconds turn into hours and days.
Do the firce politicians and businessmen, leaving their battlefields in the evenings, go to their nine bedrooms or 23 elegant living rooms and not feel lonely?
Being surrounded only by the attributes of matter, do they receive from them the dose of love and tenderness they need?
Will the above-mentioned bedrooms hug their owner?
Will the most expensive tennis racket cheer up the hardworking purchaser?
Will one of the golden bedroom walls say, "My great entrepreneur, you are loved and wonderful!"
WE CAN SHOW LOVE, SENSITIVITY AND FORGIVE. YOUR MONEY WILL NOT DO IT. MONEY CANNOT REPLACE IT
It is thanks to their merits that they were doing well in one of the most important levels of life, which is material security.
Back then, they were the owners of many exclusive salons with well-known, recognizable brand clothes, aimed at self-aware women. They hired hundreds of girls. They were very wealthy.
However, the money they possessed could not help them arrange their own personal affairs. With money, they could not regain the relationships they had lost. They couldn't buy forgiveness and understanding. "
Inspiring Thoughts – The keys to Yourself
Acceptance - You are your closest friend. Don't put yourself aside. Self-acceptance is the foundation, after all you will accompany yourself twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week.
Understanding - „Safe" is dangerous, because life numbness is more damaging than opening up to new things.
Thoughts - Positive thoughts about yourself are a proven medicine. They are the most effective of all available methods for you. When taken, they immediately bring relief.
Children - Moving through the room for a one-year-old child is a great feat and challenge. The child has a purpose, do you have any?
Mind - Making the mind work is the best solution. You control it when you give it new responsibilities.
Lack of activity - Things pushed away do not kick or bite. You hurt yourself by not talking to them.
Power - Power arises from self-realization, not satisfying others.
New time - That old you, from before the metamorphosis, could not cope with current difficulties. But the changed you, most definitely can.
Creating life - Man exceeds the levels of knowledge about himself and the world when he opens himself to hearing what he has never heard before, to see what he has never seen before.
Work on yourself - You can clean your home, but not your own mind?
After divorce - Cooperation with ex-husband or ex-wife is a maturity test. It is openness and practical cleansing of old conflicts and previously existing discrepancies.
Time travel - People mostly don't live in the NOW. A man sits on the sofa, searches his memory and remembers what he had done two weeks earlier. And in this way another year of his life passed forever.
Imagination - Most job applicants think they have something special, but in truth they have never seen it.
Fears - Fear is not in fear, but in you. It does nothing, just looks at what you do when you see it.
Limits - One thing connects those who boldly take steps in life and those who are terrified of it. It is surprise. Those who walk are surprised that those who stand die and those who stand are surprised that those who walk don’t die.
Haters - What he does online, in the real world would lead to the accusation of active assault on other people.
Trust - When you stand in front of the mirror, look into your eyes with gentleness and acceptance. You are looking at your best friend.
Knowledge - Earlier you were the foundation of today's self. Today, you are the foundation of yourself tomorrow.
Blocking life - You say: "Better known, but poisoned air of the old way of life than fresh air of the new." As a child you wouldn't say that - you would have chosen an easier direction and not a known one.
Courage - All records are broken by those who do not look at those who do not break them.
Difficulties - When you classify difficult matters as things that will enrich you, not crush you, then you will understand that life is about learning and doesn’t lurk after your health with the intention of killing you.
Enemy - You're lucky! The police do not record in their files any of your attacks on yourself.
Self realization - Development occurs when you explore what you did not know before.
Pain - Why do pain-giving fears have more value to you than consciously planned actions that can counteract them?
Changes - Changing the rhythm of the day and place of work does not kill the seekers, but enriches them with experience.
Cooperation - Think, is taking drugs that only give you a momentary improvement in well-being worth it? Does further lying to yourself have any sense or purpose?